Life after divorce, breakup, or loss. Real talk. Real support. Your way.
You’ve made it through the storm — or at least most of it. Now what?
This is the space between endings and beginnings — and it belongs to you.
After a 27-year relationship ended, I found myself single for the first time since I was 19. No guidebook. No plan. Just grief, confusion, and a million tiny “WTAF now?” moments.
Whether you’re divorced, widowed, or have come away from a relationship that once defined you — that kind of loss reshapes everything.
I didn’t bounce back quickly. Nobody truly does. But I did find a new rhythm. Slowly. Clumsily. Honestly.
What started as me sharing the raw, the real, and the frankly ridiculous aftermath of my 27-year marriage ending has grown into something bigger.
Divorced Not Dead isn’t some polished “healing space” — it’s built on experience, humour, and the kind of honesty you only earn by living through it.
If your long-term relationship blew up, faded out, or fell apart — you’re in the right place.
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However it ended.
Here's to what's next.
Some people book solo adventures. Others just want to make it through a Sunday without losing the plot. Some change everything — from hairstyles to where they live or what they value. Others are still figuring out who they are without the “we.”
However your next chapter begins — quietly or boldly — it’s yours.
You’re not broken. You’re just warming up. It's simply your time to thrive - on your terms.
What you’ll find here
This isn’t a community for people who’ve “moved on.”
It’s for those still moving — one honest step at a time.
At Divorced Not Dead, you’ll find:
✅ A subscription community — three tiers of support, from low-key to all-in
✅ Weekly blogs — no fluff, just stories that sound like real life
✅ Private coaching — 1:1 or small group, depending on what you need
✅ The Divorced Not Dead podcast — raw conversations and zero BS
Everything here is built around one truth: you deserve support that meets you where you are.
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If you’re…
● If you're trying to navigate life post-divorce, loss, or separation
● Somewhere between “I’m fine” and “I have no idea what I’m doing”
● Tired of advice that assumes you’re 28 and child-free
● Ready to start again, on your own terms — even if you’re still figuring out what those are
Then yes — this is for you.
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If you’re…
● If you're trying to navigate life post-divorce, loss, or separation
● Somewhere between “I’m fine” and “I have no idea what I’m doing”
● Tired of advice that assumes you’re 28 and child-free
● Ready to start again, on your own terms — even if you’re still figuring out what those are
Then yes — this is for you.
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If you’re…
● If you're trying to navigate life post-divorce, loss, or separation
● Somewhere between “I’m fine” and “I have no idea what I’m doing”
● Tired of advice that assumes you’re 28 and child-free
● Ready to start again, on your own terms — even if you’re still figuring out what those are
Then yes — this is for you.
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This is where it all began — me, figuring it out and sharing the highs, lows, and laugh-so-you-don’t-cry moments along the way.
Follow the story — seven years and counting — told the only way I know how: messy, honest, and full of heart.
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