My Story
After my 27-year relationship ended, I found myself single for the first time since I was 19.
No guidebook. No plan. Just grief, confusion, and a million tiny “WTAF now?” moments.
How Divorced Not Dead began
Whether you’re divorced, widowed, or have come away from a relationship that once defined you — that kind of loss reshapes everything.
I didn’t bounce back quickly. Nobody truly does. But I did find a new rhythm. Slowly. Clumsily. Honestly.
What started as me sharing the raw, the real, and the frankly ridiculous aftermath of my marriage ending, has grown into something bigger.
Divorced Not Dead isn’t some polished “healing space” — it’s built on experience, humour, and the kind of honesty you only earn by living through it.
If your long-term relationship blew up, faded out, or fell apart — you’re in the right place.
Is This For You?
If you’re…
If you're trying to navigate life post-divorce, loss, or separation
Somewhere between “I’m fine” and “I have no idea what I’m doing”
Tired of advice that assumes you’re 28 and child-free
Ready to start again, on your own terms — even if you’re still figuring out what those are
Then yes — this is for you.
Where It All Began
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This is where it all began — me, figuring it out and sharing the highs, lows, and laugh-so-you-don’t-cry moments along the way.
Follow the story — seven years and counting — told the only way I know how: messy, honest, and full of heart.